I shared my household in the google home app and he added nest battery cameras and can only see the cameras on his phone but i cant see them when i open my app. Any ideas why
Have you verified that this person is actually in your household (Settings | Household)? Are you and the other person accessing the same Google Nest "home" in the Google Home app? Are you on the same Wi-Fi network?
I was able to figure it out. Although they were sharing my household, they were adding it to their account in google home.
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